One of the hardest parts of writing any speech is getting started, I am sure you may have some ideas but it’s always hard when it comes to putting pen to paper. So if you are struggling with this common problem then I would suggest you write down all your ideas and then try to put them together. Remember you do not have to start with the start of the speech. You can start with the end if it is easier for you.
The beginning of the grooms father speech needs to do two things, which include getting everyone’s attention and explaining your relation to the groom. I know this sounds crazy since everyone at your son’s wedding should know who you are but you will find more often than not that members of the bride’s family may still not know you. And you really need to make sure that everyone knows who you are for your speech to make any sense to them.
So a great way to get everyone’s attention is to start your speech with a well know quote from someone famous. You can also start with a snappy joke, this will get the audience engaged in your speech and focused on you. From here go on to explain that you are the father of the groom and thank everyone for coming and making it a great day.
Once you get the start out the way you really have some room to play. Providing you get in all the things you want to say it does not matter when they come. So I am going to give you a few suggestions on what needs to be said and then I will tell you how to finish your grooms father speech. I highly suggest you finish you speech with the things that I mention. But here are some things can you say in the meantime.
When you start you say or who you are and welcome everyone, now you need to share some stories with the audience about your relationship with your son. These can be funny stories or meaningful stories. It’s up to you. I would say aim for at least one funny experience that you have shared with your son. This will keep everyone’s attention on you. One note to add to this is to choose your stories and experiences wisely since the aim here is not to embarrass your son in front of his guests. I know it’s tempting but I do not think he will be impressed with you.
Another must have is a few nice comments about the bride and her family. Explain how happy she has made your son and how she has made him a better man. Welcome her family to yours and thank them for blessings allowing her to wed your son. You will also need to pass on some advice to your son. It can be marriage advice if you are OK with giving that advice or it can be life advice which ever suits you better.
Now you want to end your speech with your blessing to the marriage and thank everyone for coming and making the wedding a cracking day to remember. Wish them luck and really give let your son and everyone know they have your support. I hope this helps you with your grooms father speech.
